A study published in the journal Obesity sheds some interesting light into the question why weight loss is so difficult, investigating  success rates of the famous reality show “Biggest Losers”. The study found that contestants, on average, lost 128 pounds each over the course of the 30-week show. But it get’s interesting afterwards. The stunning effect turned into a debacle that many know too well: Losing the weight is easy, keeping it off is the problem.

“Losing weight is easy. The true challenge is to keep it off.”


After the tremendous success of the “Biggest Losers” contestants, ALL BUT ONE gained it back. The study shows that only ONE of the 14 contestants was able to keep the weight off. All others gained their original weight back, with four of them even more than before the show.

The reason seems to be our metabolism. When we lose weight, metabolic rate slows down dramatically and once the weight is lost, it needs to be maintained in that state – meaning eating much less per day than before the diet.  For many, the real problems start here, facing everyday struggles with food, cravings and portion sizes. Eventually, many revert back to old habits and within days the body returns to what obesity researchers call the body’s preferred weight. The study suggests that the bodies of obese people work against them, making it much harder to get in shape even when medically necessary.

A key component seems to be the duration of diets. Or with other words, speedy weight loss has a negative impact on our metabolism – causing speedy weight gain once the diet period ended. In many cases with additional weight gain.

But obesity is more than just eating the wrong foods or the lack of willpower. Almost always, overeating has emotional roots and is influenced by complex environmental, biological and hormonal circumstances.  Here are some key factors to consider when losing weight:

1) Forget (short term) approaches

How quickly we lose weight plays a fundamental role. The quicker we lose, the faster we gain if old habits remain  after the diet. Aim for slow, but steady weight loss with a new way of long term eating habits without periods of short dieting. At any rate, avoid extreme diets, fasts, detoxes and other speedz programs altogether. The frustrating weight is back before you know it.

2) Focus on the WHY and HOW

Many over-focus on WHAT to eat. Additionally, evaluate WHY cravings happen. Is there a trigger moment? And why do you crave a certain food? Also, celebrate eating by paying attention to the HOW. Prepare home meals in a comfortable environment. Eat slow and chew minfullz instead of rushing through a sandwich in a car or between meetings. Enjoy and pay attention to your food. Cut portion sizes in half.

3) Consult a specialist

Obesity should be discussed at your checkups at the regular Dr office. But there are also medical specialists available with options in their sleeves you might not aware of. Search for an obesity specialist in your area and make an appointment. Maybe hormonal imbalances, food allergies or other medical issues keep you from losing weight. It’s worth investigating.

4) Seek accountability and educate yourself on foods

Working with a coach can help. Finding the root cause of your cravings, learning new tricks and foods works especiallz well when paired with a strong accountability effort. If working with a coach is not an option, join a group, either in person or via social media. Remember, you are not alone because others struggle too. At many occasions, merely talking to other same minded people can have a healing effect.

5) Ditch deadlines – forever

The most difficulty with diets are deadlines. When on a diet, we count the days and as a result, revert to old habits once over. Instead of falling into this gap over and over again, make a long term plan. Once you decide to lose weight, consider yourself on a PATH without an end. Embracing an “open-ended” transformation rather than speeding through short periods of starvation will prevent you from reverting back to old and bad habits after the “deadline” has ended. And don’t despair if you fail once in a while. We all do  – because we are human. When that happens, simply re-adjust without blaming yourself, return to your path and continue with your journey.

6) Don’t compare yourself to others – and journal

Some people gain weight by merely looking at a piece of chocolate. While your best friend effortlessly munches a box of nougat truffles without consequences. Don’t compare yourself to others, every metabolism, body composition and biochemical setup is different. Instead try to find what is good for you without depriving yourself. Which foods do you tolerate well? Which cause problems? How often do you eat and when? When do you feel best? Track your emotions, foods, not-so-good-times and events in a journal and review your notes once a week. A pattern will emerge that can really help you, your Coach or Doctor learning more about what triggers your cravings.

7) Don’t miss out on the fun of eating

As important healthy eating is, don’t overdo it. When thoughts about healthy foods occupy your mind constantly, try to let go. Remember, extremes never make for a happy outcome. Indulge once in a while and enjoy life without a bad conscience. Have that glass of wine, piece of chocolate or whatever it is you like. The key is to know your limits, convert situations of indulgence into enjoyable moments and re-adjust after.  At the end of the day, we all want to be happy and if healthy eating does the opposite, it’s not so healthy after all. It’s all about the balance, a happily enjoyed cookie is healthier than unhappily wolfing down broccoli.

8) Eat together

Americans rarely eat together these days. The average American eats one in every five meals in the car and one in four Americans has fast food at least once every day. An analysis from the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) found that students who eat irregularly  with their parents were significantly more likely to be truant at school. And children not eating dinner with their parents at least twice a week were 40 percent more likely to be overweight. And according to a study conducted by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, children who eat dinner with their parents five or more days a week had less trouble with drugs, alcohol, and eat healthier, have better academic performance and reportedly are being closer with their parents. Healthy eating habits starts early!

8) Weight management is not about looks. It’s about health.

Many still neglect the thought that being overweight and obese can make us seriously sick. Carrying too much weight, especially around the belly, is a serious health problem and not a cosmetical issue. Maintaining a healthy weight is not about a bikini figure or fitting into skinny jeans, it is about preventing devastating diseases and quality of life. Realizing that life expectancy is severely shortened by carrying too much weight is the first step to implementing changes for a healthier future.